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Finding your Surrogate for LGBT+ Parents

Finding your Surrogate for LGBT+ Parents

Our Surrogates Want to Work with You

Conceptual Options has the highest quality surrogate mothers globally due to our reputation in the industry and has been in the business since 1999.  We specialize in same-sex surrogacy and have surrogate mothers waiting to work with you.

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The Reason for Our Success

All our surrogate mothers go through a rigorous screening process.  They must be between 21 and 39 years old, have previously delivered at least one healthy child, and be financially stable, among other factors.  They must apply to become one of our surrogates. If Conceptual Options finds them qualified, they meet with our Surrogate Relations Teams to ensure the potential surrogate mother fully understands the importance of being a surrogate mother and its commitment.  The entire process ensures you are matched to the best possible surrogate mother; after all, she will carry your child for the first 9 months of life.

Special Considerations for LGBT+ Parents

For the most part, finding a surrogate for an LGBT+ parent is no different than that of a heterosexual couple or individual – we match you to the best possible surrogate mother according to your needs and personal preferences.  However, LGBT+ parents have specific questions ranging from how the surrogacy laws in their own state apply to how they will be represented on the birth certificate.  We have answers to nearly every possible question and refer you to an attorney specializing in ART (assisted reproductive technologies) law if necessary.

Surrogate Mothers for Lesbian Parents

There is a wide range of reasons why a female same-sex couple would need a surrogate mother.  Some women might have a medical reason they cannot carry a child through pregnancy and birth, age could be a factor, or the woman may prefer not to become pregnant.  No matter the reason, we have surrogate mothers eager to work with lesbian couples. In fact, we find it especially rewarding to work with female same-sex couples as they tend to have a particular vision of the type of surrogate mother they want to work with.

What Type of Relationship Do You Want with Your Surrogate?

Among other considerations, we match you to a surrogate who wants the same level of relationship and communication as you.  Do you want to be in constant contact with your surrogate mother every step of the way, or only at certain milestones? Because we only select the most qualified and committed surrogate mothers, you can rest assured that your surrogate will respect your wishes and act with professionalism.

Emotional and Psychological Support

Conceptual Options offers 24/7 psychological support to its surrogate mothers to put any concerns to rest that may come up during the process.  Although our surrogates are professionals, they are caring, nurturing, and growing a baby for you. There can be moments of stress that nearly any woman would go through, especially during pregnancy.  Regardless of the sexual orientation of the intended parents, we deeply care about our surrogate mothers and the babies of the intended parents and offer support every step of the way.